Behind the Screen: How Therapy Can Help with Porn Recovery
- kevinufoegbune
- 3 hours ago
- 2 min read

A majority of men aged 18–30 use pornography weekly. If you have ever felt conflicted, stuck, or unsure about your relationship with porn, you are not alone.
For many men, porn use begins casually and privately. Over time, it can come to feel less like a choice and more like a habit that is hard to step away from. Therapy offers a space to understand why this happens and to regain a sense of agency, without shame or judgment.
Quick Stats
87–97% of adult men have viewed pornography at some point in their lives
Around 70% of men aged 18–30 consume porn, with 50–70% of men worldwide reporting weekly use
The global porn industry generates tens of billions of dollars annually, with major sites reporting 30 - 42 billion visits per year and an estimated 115 million daily visits worldwide
Many individuals are first exposed to pornography before the age of 18
Platforms such as OnlyFans have further blurred the line between fantasy, intimacy, and real-time connection
How Porn May Be Impacting You
When porn use becomes compulsive or misaligned with your values, it can begin to affect areas of life that matter most:
Emotional and physical intimacy in relationships
Self-esteem, confidence, and self-trust
Mental health, including anxiety, shame, or low mood
Spirituality or personal belief systems
Your overall relationship with yourself
Often, porn is not the core issue it is a coping strategy for stress, loneliness, pressure, or emotional overload.
How I Can Help
Therapy provides a confidential, supportive space to explore these patterns without judgment.
Therapy is a healthy and effective way to work through problematic porn use
I have supported men struggling with this issue for over six years
Together, we explore root causes, emotional triggers, and nervous-system patterns, not just the behaviour itself
We work collaboratively to set realistic, meaningful goals that support lasting change
You set the pace. You decide what matters. Therapy is not about labels, it is bout understanding and choice.
What You May Gain
Deeper emotional and physical intimacy
Improved confidence and self-worth
Reduced guilt, shame, anxiety, and fear
Greater control over urges and triggers
Stronger alignment with your personal values and identity
This is a common struggle, and you deserve support as you navigate it.
If you are seeking a new beginning and you need therapy, guidance, and life coaching, speak to me today about starting a New Chapter in your life!
Kevin







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